Phaedra Jade Star
The Orgasm Queen
High Priestess, Tantric Muse, Pleasure and Embodiment Coach
Empowering Men and Women for True Love, Genuine Happiness, and Outrageous Success
What if I told you I could see into your future?
Do you know what I see?
Spectacular confidence, radiant power, truly satisfied, and deeply in love with life!
Beautiful, brilliant, happy, stunningly attractive, rich beyond measure, fully embracing life!
If you knew you could tap into that power, to activate and awaken this part of you, would you want to know it?
Would you do something that feels magnificent and experience this change?
The quality of your entire life depends on how much joy you can bring into it and what I’m going to show you is not only possible, but it also feels fabulous to do it every day, all the time.
Here in lies the resistance.
Loving life can’t be that easy! And it feels good? No way. We have to work hard to get the best in life. Life is a struggle.
Until it’s not.
This is that one thing, that one little thing that is staring you right in the face between you and your joy. You’ve been standing behind this invisible forcefield for a long time.
Being on the journey of self-discovery means you are aware that there is a division or duality. There is something between you and peace.
Do you want to know how life works? Wouldn’t that be helpful?
I’m going to flip your switches and turn the lights on. When you get tuned in and turned on in your radiance miracles race toward you.
If you have tried everything else, you are in the right place.
My darlings, you must know how to put desire and passion in your life for it to manifest.
Stop chasing what you can create here and now!
Welcome!
I am so in love with life! I feel the power of Life working for me all the time!
And it does so because I infuse my world with orgasmic passion every day!
What’s my secret?
Orgasm!
It means very enjoyable or exciting. It can be expanded from a blissful thought, a luscious gratitude, or titillating arousal. Turning yourself on means igniting that scrumptious passion in all that you do.
To shine a bit of clarity on this, I would like to dispel the myth:
Happiness comes when you have the right education, make enough money (whatever that is), have the right partner, the right home, the best body, the ultimate personality, etc., ad nauseam.
This has never been the equation for happiness, but it is a perfect formula for keeping people stuck, cycling by consuming materials and giving away their power. (Oh, I have an excellent tool for that one, too.)
Giving away one’s power is absolutely why the blessings trickle down in return.
If you want to know your power, you have to unleash it.
The Body Keeps Score
You wouldn’t go to the gym and only work your arms and neglect the rest of you. You also wouldn’t brush only one side of your mouth or wash one armpit.
We have known for quite some time now that our issues do indeed live in our tissues.
How, then, do we clear that?
Can we go take a jog, hike in nature, meditate, cycle, do Yoga, jazz, or punch a bag? While all of these are great in their own right, they do not provide the capacity to get deep into suppressed emotions and integrate them through transmutation.
Mostly, people stay way up in their heads and try and figure it out. The mind can be persuaded, however, but the body is wise. Often, we don’t know how to listen.
I am going to walk you through the most powerful tools on the planet to move that mountain that stands in front of you and all that you desire.
With these tools, you will clear the charge, learn to transmutate that energy, and convert it straight into Radiance. This is where Magick begins.
Cycles of Life
We are heavily discouraged from showing raw, powerful emotions. Stuffing it down, even denying our own happiness, only invites suffering.
When issues do arise, and they will, we are shuffled off to a therapist, where we sit and think about what we’ve done.
We are never really told these emotional eruptions are not only normal but necessary. Sitting and stewing even to have clarity just cycles the problem with small insights. Those insights are not powerful enough to shift the depth of those emotions and dismiss where they sit in the body altogether. Hence, we are back in the therapist's chair for years.
The moment we are clear of a desire, a real passion that makes our heart sing, we are presented with our first challenge. This challenge is usually where people freeze. They are overwhelmed and quite literally terrified about how to navigate through such intense emotions. Some of us have gotten so good at shoving it down that we think we have nothing to work on. And we are encouraged by even those that mean well, to not worry or be concerned about the atrocities happening around us. Except, my lovely, you are swimming in the collective ocean, and you are swimming around and through it all.
You are affected when you go to work day after day and hate it. You are affected when you see other people happy and you’re not. You are affected when you try and fail and struggle to muster the resilience and passion it takes to charge forward again. All of this is exhausting.
Desire, Rupture, Rapture, Committed Action
Your challenge is your blessing unless it's sitting on top of you. No one came here to be ordinary. Everyone is needed and has a remarkable, highly unique gift to contribute, but only a handful of people will really believe it.
It’s time to find out what you love! What in life really makes your heart sing?
Now, the second I ask this question, you are going to get resistance. Why is that?
The mind wants to rationalize out of safety, so it uses past experiences to gauge a possible future result. Problematic for sure, considering you are not the person of your past. You are growing and shifting consciousness and perspective constantly.
We are going to name your desire, no matter what your mind tells you.
Can’t afford it
Don’t have enough knowledge
No one will believe you
You are too old
You are too young
You are too sexy
Not sexy enough
On and on and on….
Can you see how none of this will ignite you? We are going to do a complete shift in our way of thinking.
First, we are going to excavate those delicious desires and passions. Then, we are going to move those emotions that rise, including the shadows that come with it, through your physical and out of your emotional and mental constructs.
These tools are what we use for Rupture.
And we are not going to do it alone.
Sisterhood and Brotherhood
We are a social species. What has been currently fashionable in the takeover of what we call social media has been a dismantling of our real need for social interaction.
We are seldom seen for who we truly are and cannot tell others from truth or fiction on these platforms. As a result, we see a spiraling of depression and hopelessness.
I have created an authentic space for Sisters and Brothers (our Kings and Queens, Gods and Goddesses) to be witnessed and supported like no other. The container for this space is profoundly healing and very necessary. Isolation and loneliness are playgrounds for death.
Those who go on solitary spiritual journeys come back home. We return to the love of people and connection because this is how we grow the most.
I mention this because going through Rupture is done through witnessing and supporting, acknowledging and approving of one’s right to feel and express safely.
Rapture follows Rupture. We move and alchemize this energy. This is where our ancient wisdom of Magick comes into play. Our first great gift from the stars is Magick.
These tools activate immediately. You will have a shift from the very first session.
From Rapture comes clarity of vision and a beautiful surge into Committed Action.
Committed Action always has a better success rate when done with other sisters and brothers. The act of holding oneself accountable becomes a heart-opening experience.
For this reason, we continue the work understanding that our minds are a superhighway of conditions, perceptions, and beliefs. Most of those beliefs don’t serve us in our highest potential.
If you decide to get healthy, you don’t just buy one apple, a handful of grapes, and some vegetables for one day. You invest in multiple days, knowing that the beginning stages can be a little rough because you are going against a habit you are ready to change.
This is exactly the same. Only these practices are Pleasure Practices, and they feel amazing to do. Therein lies the resistance. We are trained not to do what feels pleasurable but to honor struggle and pain. That is the consequence our world lives in today. We are always creating. Making your life majestic means you have to understand the power and how to wield it in your favor.
Women
Women have been taught that it’s honorable to serve, giving to ourselves last, often with a reserve of miniscule breadcrumbs to suffice.
And yet, we expect ourselves to run full out with abundant energy and positivity hoping we can refill by the kindness and love of others.
Here’s the truth. That just pisses us off. Working and giving until exhaustion has never given us our greatest desires. What it will do is make a woman bitter and resentful. She will live in Doubt and Fear. She will give away her power and have no idea she’s doing it. That just sucks!
Possibly the worst part about this is that we are conditioned and convinced to believe we can never have what we truly want.
Men
Men have been taught very early on that vulnerability is a sign of weakness and the best way to process emotions is to do something aggressive. Men are spectacular in their hearts. They light up a woman’s world in ways you can’t imagine, and when they can’t get there safely, they crash and burn, spiraling into episodes they regret later.
Confusion and frustration set into depression. They feel lost in the perception of who they are supposed to be and long to be who they truly are. This is maddening for them and those around them.
This work is as powerful for men as it is for women. We are both products of a system that does its best to keep us small.
Rapture Tools
Just like Rupture we have tools to fan the flames of Rapture. Our world just loves a good sob story, a glorious victim tragedy, or a miserable existence. None of this brings us into our power.
When I first started using these tools with Mama Gena I was immediately transported into a higher space. Using these tools every day is not hard. It seems to take nothing to bitch about what’s out of your control.
I am, however, going to ask that you put that hat on the shelf and be audaciously curious about what life would be like if you could celebrate it all the time.
You will even look forward to your challenges because you know what to do with them. The objective in life is not to remove challenges. They are necessary. It’s how to navigate in your world knowing how to alchemize that energy.